Most of the time, with most people,
when they go to say anything to somebody
an editing function automatically activates in the mind -
to determine whether what is about to be said
is going to please/upset them, and thus,
how will it effect the approval rating.

When someone is awake to a certain level
that does not apply. Whatever they say,
or you say to them, they will listen, hear, absorb,
and respond appropriately.

Once we disconnect from that automatic editing part of the mind
we start living. How to?
It is up to us: invest in the illusion of safety, security, and
predictability,
or, unconditionally, allow spontaneous living to happen through us.
”Take no thought of the morrow/next second…”

So how come you haven’t already?
The function of the mind is to take care of you -
so it projects the worst possible.

Take a look at those who are living spontaneously -
aren't they having more fun than you?
You will never experience true freedom - until you take the risk-less risk.