The good news is:
the Genes created at the moment of our conception do not control the rest of
our lives.
The bad news is...
the Genes created at the moment of our conception do not control the rest of
our lives.
That makes us responsible for ourselves and our lives - so we cannot blame
anybody or anything. Yuk!

Getting angry and blaming is (was?) such a relief isn't/wasn't it - and now
we do not have any excuses! ("No thank you - I will seek a
second/third/fourth opinion - until I find someone who will agree with me.")

One of our strongest programs is to believe that if we are unhappy it is
someone else's fault - for not 'treating us the way we 'ought' to be
treated.

(Have you ever observed this?
Someone says to someone that they are angry.
The person screams back that they are not angry.
The first person points out that they were shouted at,
and the other person replies: "Well it is your fault for saying I am angry."
Funny isn't it - if it not you involved.)

Good idea to observe this - in others, and yourself:
Listen not so much what they say, but how they say it.
Tone of voice; facial expression; body posture; Insistence? Control?

Bruce Lipton makes much of this pretty clear in this video.
We are not controlled. We create our own reality - in every possible way.
Not only the way we live - who with, how, where, but everything we do, say,
and most devastating of all - everything we think. More Yuk!
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-8506668136396723343#

Happy listening...

PS.
It would be nice in a way to think it is all impossible.
The good/bad news is that it is not impossible.
Your freedom is already intact - just waiting for you to stop holding all
those unessential things that are in the way.

Some people who have been around these words for years are now just popping
into realisation. So please, stay with it. If 'the dark night of the soul'
is upon you - reach out - we are all here for each other.
Sending love and encouragement...