Someone wrote:
>I keep wanting yearning for a relationship someone to share life with. I
>fantasize that this will come and wonder often what I am doing or not doing to
>keep this away.  I've got several different reasons some more critical than
>others.  Ready to let this all go now for more adventures.

We say: "If only...."

Life already is an adventure. Every moment.
It is our attitude that is the deciding factor.

I remember - every morning when I woke up I used to wonder what adventure
the day would bring. When a situation was no longer fun, I changed it.
Engaged in situations that were not easy. Took risks.

At one point, married - to a very lovely woman, house, steady outside
salesman job, weekend photographing weddings, XK 120 Jaguar with modified
C-Type racing engine - and let go of the lot - to move to London, then go
hitch hiking around the world - with another wonderful woman.

If we let them, adventures will come to us. Knock on our door.
What happens is, we have conditions - we want what we want - on our terms.

When we complain we are really saying we don't want what we are complaining
we don't have. If you want it enough, you will do what is needed to get it.

Just imagine - an exciting adventure/partner is out there - just waiting for
you to drop your fixed ideas and conditions, and make yourself available.

Happy adventuring...