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Death... (again)

Death...  (again)

  Let's see if we can disconnect from our installed idea of Death and take a look at ...

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Unfolding...

 Paul Lowe wrote:>Seems like the 'meditation' suggestion is taking off.>There d...

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Using The Will...

Hi Love,Happy to hear most things are going well for you.Many people are reporting difficu...

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We Are So Self-Centered, We Don’t See Ea…

If you tune into another person deeply, you will also be able to tune into a new depth wit...

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You Can’t Attain Happiness – You Already…

If you are not happy and fulfilled it means you have stuff in the way that you are not tak...

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Looking For Approval (audio)

We are looking for approval because we are not respecting ourselves just as we are.

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How We Experience Reality...

GreetingsLet's take another look at something I keep attempting to share -about how we see...

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A Clear Person Vibrates On A Higher Freq…

Being around somebody clear can be uplifting. It can quicken a deeper part in you.

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Dreaming The Impossible Dream (audio)

Anything is possible if you expand to allow it.

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Different Levels of Consciousness?

Dear Paul, Just when you thought you heard it all.  I almost couldn’t believe what h...

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What is Real...

I may have sent this out already.No worries - it is worth watching again.What is, what we ...

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Not Holding The Old - Part 2 (audio)

It takes a certain level of courage, presence, and honestynot to hold on to the old.

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Not Holding The Old - Part 1 (audio)

If you don¹t hold, whatever you don't need can drift away -

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About Paul Lowe...

Another one written some time ago.------------------------------An often asked question is...

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Being Present....and Complaint

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Being Present
How much in the moment we are when we talk to each other.

As we keep saying, it is rare to experience anyone totally in the moment -
ever. We usually assign our actions, speech, thoughts to the automatic part
of our brain. We just take phrases and clichés from the data bank of our
memories, and string them together into a sentence. So rare we are really
there in a unique creative moment.

I know you may not agree, so I suggest you carry out an experiment.
For one day, or at least an hour or so, be really, really present with every
single world you utter. Every syllable would be better. Say, everything you
say. Nothing automatic. Not a single cliché.

With our children we are usually even more remiss. It is rare we actually
speak to them as a human being. We forget what it was like when we were
young. We do not treat them as equals. Yet it is very rare that children are
not more intelligent than their parents! All they really need from us is our
experience - in order to learn what not to do, the way we have done it!

Try it out. Be absolutely creatively present in everything you do, say, and
think - even for just a short while. It is exhausting to start with, then
after a while you can enter into a whole new level of living.


Complaint


Another experiment suggestion.
Again, for one day, or even just a few hours, become alert to all complaint.
Not only from yourself, but everybody. Listen. You may be shocked to find
how much complaint there is. And so little gratitude.

When I was living with my parents we did not have a phone. Not only were
they too expensive, there was a waiting list of years. And having one was of
very little use anyway - because no one we knew had one either, so we had no
one we could call!

And everyone complained - about everything.
It is a favourite British pastime - that is shared around the world.

Now, just seventy-odd years later we carry a tiny gadget with us at all
times from which we can call anyone anywhere any time.
We have prosperity and conveniences we never even dreamed of in those days.

And have we stopped complaining? Are we any happier? I don't think so - in
fact the more gadgiterised we get the more unhappy and complaining we seem
to be.

There is a whole new batch of studies with super sensitive instruments
showing things like the light, and frequencies we emit from our bodies.
Scanners are showing us that our frequencies change dramatically in varying
states of thought.

Putting is simply: Complain, and you vibrate at a lower frequency.
Gratitude takes the frequencies higher.

Complaint 'holds' an atmosphere around you - like a dark cloud - to which
other dark clouds are drawn. Gratitude is like light. Light disperses
darkness, and draws more light to itself. Both are self perpetuating.

The choice is obvious isn't it.
'All' it takes is awareness - in each moment.

Happy experimenting...

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