and any confusion of the real with the unreal always leads to disaster.”
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As we have said so often, conventional marriage is one of the most destructive institutions on the planet. And so delusion-ally stupid. Divide and possess.
So how come most people try to make it work?
‘For the sake of the children’ is one argument – but look at the children we are producing! Violence everywhere.
Hard to find a movie or computer game that is not actually based on violence!
A by-product is the whole industry of course.
The wedding industry; the marrying industry; the marriage counselling industry;
the lawyers to sort out the divorce; the divorce courts; and lots, lots more.
As with almost everything on this planet, the basis is fear.
Even though it is absolutely proved no such states exist on this planet,
our whole life is oriented to try to ensure safety, security and predictability.
It is mandatory that we love both parents, multiple siblings, however many children we have – yet only one partner?
As soon as one partner feels love for another person it has to be denied, or divorce! Are we really that stupid? (yes.)
How about inclusion? Too painful to try? Then you will live in fear and misery for most of the rest of your life. (The only way then is to marry someone who is so unattractive and stupid that no one else will be attracted to them.
But then, you are more likely to get attracted to someone more desirable!)
We are slowly changing, but it may not be fast enough. Until we live in unity, and for each other, we are doomed.
(At one time it was illegal to print a photo of a woman – in a bikini! Then the bikini was allowed; then breasts – with the nipples airbrushed out... an so on.)
If Hollywood, and politicians, would come out (instead of ‘getting caught’) and tell the world how they really live there would be a revolution in the way people would start living. In honesty.
There is a simple solution: everybody to start sharing their inner dialogue –
their actual truth. But everyone would have to start at the same time.
(Not like the undeveloped country that decided to change the side of the road on which to drive. To test it out they decided to try it with the trucks first!)
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------ Forwarded Message
From: Alan Steinfeld
To: Paul Lowe
Here is a new book that I think you will enjoy:
"Sex at Dawn": Why monogamy goes against our nature
From testicle size to our slutty ancestors, a new book explains what human history teaches us about sex and couples
http://www.salon.com/books/feature/2010/06/27/sex_at_dawn_interview
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