Although you may not like the way you are, you do not dislike your
behaviour enough to allow the uncertainty of change to happen.
You are choosing to stay in what you think is control.

If you did want it enough - it has already happened.
Let me explain.

What you want, is to be different - on your terms.
If that is so, what you are not realising is -
it is your terms that are preventing the creative change from happening.
Not possible to do the same things, in the same way, unconsciously,
and have the transformation.

Change is simple.
Just stop doing what you are doing, the way you are doing it. There you go - done!

An interviewer was waffling on the other day saying they know not to reply
sometimes - because it is automatic, but the mind wants to do it. This is
called: Addiction.

Again, simple, just stop doing what you are doing the way you are doing it.

In another instance, someone who was here had a meltdown and dissolved
from their old way of being an authority when giving someone suggestions.
Yet on the phone just after, they had gone back somewhat into their old
attitude. When they were here they saw the situation of equality clearly,
but when going back to an old environment - forgot. Not as bad as the old,
but still - if you want to stay in the new - have to stay remembering - in
each moment. In Each Moment.

You really can just simply disconnect from that old story - which you call
you.  It is not you - that old story is what you substitute into the present
moment -  so you do not have to be here - not knowing - who you are, or anything
really.  (Nobody knows who they are - it is not possible to know who you are.
Advanced course.)

Several of you have written asking if it is possible to remove the
interviewer from a recent video, and just have the interviewed. What is
that about?

Could be? - the interviewed person is present, alive, juicy, unpredictable,
and the interviewer is not that way.  Even though the interviewer says they know what to do to be more alive,
they just talk about what they need to do - rather than just doing it!
(Just do it!)

In an interview with Dianne she explains the process very clearly.
If ‘presence’ has not happened for you, I suggest you watch it again. And
again.  It is so, so simple. Just be here now.

Heard that before haven’t you.
How come it is has not happened for you? - because you do not want it to -
you want your way - and your way is in the way - of you being your true
(un)self.

Meditation, Yoga, workshops, reading this - unless it is for the joy of
it, it is just another way of not being here now. Escape.
Almost everything like that is an escape - that your ego presents as
‘being open to change. There is nothing to change - just stop letting
change happen!

Just talked about this, and it is recorded. Dianne and Sabine say it is
brilliant.  Kira is just preparing it for the web. Coming to an email box near you
soon.

And once again, nothing to be taken seriously.
If you don’t want the unpredictability change to take you over, no worries
- you don’t have to. Changing is not right, and not changing is not wrong.
Just one way is more fun, and brings that wonderful feeling of utter
freedom.