“Doesn’t  have a point of view, knows not where he’s going to…”
Beatles.

When I am sharing with anyone (except Dianne) there is always a place in
them where they compare what I am sharing, with what they think they
already know.
They agree or disagree. And if they agree, they think they have understood.
(If you understand this - then you have not ‘got it.)

In my experience, 'The State’ connote be ‘understood.'
Even though there is an awareness of ‘It’ - I cannot describe it - even to
myself.
I had used to think that the masters of old could, but then reading my
favourite,
Loa Tzu, he says things like: “The truth cannot be said, and if it is
said, it is not the truth.
And my favourite of his:
“Everyone seems so certain, and I walk as though upon thin ice.”
And the Zen saying: “Not knowing is the most intimate."

When I am sharing with someone I can feel the place in them that is
comparing,
and thus missing the frequency of the vibration that is being shared.

It cannot be understood. And most frustrating - it cannot be ‘done.'
Even though the mind is included, it is not of the mind.
The mind does not have the capacity.
It can be sensed - but not with the senses.

When I am sharing with Dianne (still assisting her to fine tune her
communication)
if it is appropriate for her, she usually 'gets' instantly what is being
shared - because she is not comparing.

You could experiment - to see if you identify this place in yourself.
We all have a place 'where we come from.’ We think it is ‘us.’We call it
‘ourself’
It is defensive. Contracted.

“When you become as a little child.”
Not knowing. Open. Gently curious.

If you allow yourself to expand into this state, disconnecting from any
identification that you call yourself:
“Leaving your father, mother, sisters, brethren, wives and children”
your job, house, what you think you know and do not know, ambition,
approval -
you will find that - you cannot identify a self.

And you will feel absolutely free - and absolutely - Wonderful!