The word 'sex' is magnetic isn't it.
Many years ago I had a realisation for me about sex.

I realised that the sexual feelings I enjoyed most was enjoying the
enjoyment of the person I was with.

Is that clear?
The most enjoyment I have gotten from sex is enjoying the other person
enjoying. I enjoy people enjoying.

Same with love.
I love loving, and most of all, I love people feeling themselves loved.
When they accept me loving them it is a gift for me.

It is rare though. Most people do not feel worthy of being loved.
They do not deem themselves good enough to be loved, just as they are.
So if you love them they think you are not seeing them clearly, you are
infatuated, or a bit nuts - or all of the above.

I seem to love everybody (and everything) so it is there all the time now.
And the sensation increases in the moment with individuals.

When someone connects with the love I am feeling for them in that moment,
it is as though, at the level of the heart, a soft balloon gently opens and
a shower of loving tingly sensations flow through the whole of me.

Some people think the spice would go out of life if there was not conflict.
I have not found it that way. I have tried both - and I am feeling very
fulfilled with this way thank you.

That is one of the 'reasons' I am attempting to share.
And if it does not connect - no worries - I am sure it will,
in your unique way, one day.

Sending you soft tingly love...