SEXXXUAL AWARENESS! by Zeerak Jahan Khan
In a goal oriented society such as ours, we have learned to approach sex as a means to an end. Sex has almost become like a workout routine, where we seek out desired results from our regimen. Tha
In a goal oriented society such as ours, we have learned to approach sex as a means to an end. Sex has almost become like a workout routine, where we seek out desired results from our regimen. That result in sex is usually an orgasm, some thing we equate with either releasing tension or feeling good for a brief moment so that we can forget about life for awhile.
All other distractions about who we think we are, all the pressures built up within us around our Self deficiencies and inadequacies are almost impossible to let go of in our lovemaking. And that's when our lovemaking becomes focused on one thing and one thing only – the need to release. Without that release, sex often feels meaningless, empty, disorienting. And yet, with that release, we may forget our worries for an instant, but on the other side of it we may often left feeling even more hollow than before.
When Sex becomes play-full, deeply intimate - the celebration of our essential nature, rather than an attempt to release who we think we are, we transcend the addiction and need for temporary gratification . We no longer simply act out our endless physical urges or thought constructs of Love, but are Open, Present, Vulnerable, Transparent, Aware, Alive.
Beneath the physical urges and the needs of our survival dependent personality, the underlying desire that drives us, still longs for one thing – to experience Consciousness it Self- As You.
To touch the limitless as we caress the skin of our lover. To taste our own wholeness as we taste that wholeness with another. To open to love, to allow our bodies and hearts and minds to become vessels of love, so that we become a celebration of love, As Love in its highest form - In our own physical forms.
To remember, instead of to release and forget.